BDSM Beginner's Guide
The previous article popularized what BDSM is. Today, let's introduce some of the more highly regarded BDSM props.
- Facial adult BDSM props such as blindfolds and masks primarily serve two functions in BDSM. The first is facial decoration to enhance beauty; the second is to block vision, which increases excitement. This makes it impossible to predict what will happen next, thereby amplifying sensory experiences and adding to the thrill and mystery.
- Restraints such as handcuffs, ankle cuffs, and spreader bars are fundamental to the power exchange in BDSM. For beginners, these are the simplest forms of restraint, satisfying psychological needs without causing harm to either party. They are ideal adult toys for those new to BDSM. Depending on your preferences, you can use various combinations of these props to achieve different fixed positions, enhancing the excitement and thrill between couples.
- Gags and mouth plugs can increase feelings of shame and submission by restricting speech, and also limit swallowing ability, further stimulating the body to react. This allows for a deeper exploration of the mysteries of the BDSM world, making them an advanced adult toy.
4.One of the advanced adult toys in BDSM is rope bondage. While ropes may seem like simple props, they actually require a great deal of skill when used. Different knots, needs, and positions call for various binding techniques. The goal of binding is not just to restrain but also to achieve aesthetic appeal and a proper degree of constraint. It should evoke feelings of shame and excitement without causing harm to the other person. It can truly be considered an art form. We will delve into the various methods of rope bondage and restraint in future discussions.
5.Electrostatic tape is a versatile toy in adult BDSM. It can be used without harming the skin or hair, leaving no traces, and serves as a restraint tool. It can also replace blindfolds and mouth plugs. It is safe, inexpensive, and easy to use, making it a highly recommended prop.
6.Whips have a wide range of applications and are considered advanced play in BDSM adult toys. They can be used on almost any part of the body and come in various types, such as long whips, short whips, and different types of floggers. Long whips are more suitable for experienced players due to their significant potential for impact, while short whips and floggers are better for beginners because they are easier to control and the sensation is less intense. It's important to avoid using a leather whip on bones, joints, areas near internal organs, or other places without muscle protection to prevent serious injury.
7.Paddles and rulers are tools used to spank the buttocks in place of hands. While their functions are mostly similar, they come in a variety of materials, shapes, colors, and sizes. Some are cute like cat paws, others are elegant like flower shapes, and some are rugged with added ropes. Generally, they are not very large, making them suitable for beginners. They are easy to use and provide a strong sensation.
8.BDSM Props - Various Feather Paddles are primarily used for tickling. In the continuous cycle of tickling and stopping, they constantly stimulate the brain's reward mechanism. Compared to whips, wax dripping, etc., they cause almost no pain and are more easily accepted. They can be used in conjunction with binding ropes to enhance the sensation.
9.BDSM Props - Nipple Clamps come in a variety of designs on the market. Generally, they are used to stimulate the nipples, deriving pleasure from the sensation of pain. Of course, there are also more and more nipple clamps that focus on aesthetic appearance, even being designed for everyday wear.
10.BDSM Props - Low-Temperature Candles: The dripping of candles can bring a contrast of hot and slightly painful pleasure. Most low-temperature candles are made of soy wax, beeswax, etc., with a melting point of around 40-50 degrees Celsius. The candle wax comes in various shapes, colors, and scents, and there are even glow-in-the-dark options, offering strong playability. Choose according to your needs. However, be sure to use specialized low-temperature candles to avoid injury. If you are a beginner, start by applying it to areas with thicker fat, such as the thighs and buttocks. It is a highly stimulating prop among experienced BDSM players.